יום ראשון, 9 בדצמבר 2012

Reflection

1) I enjoyed reading this story, since the ideas expressed in it are relevant to these days. In the story, the narrator, set his mind about Mr. Kelada without getting to know him in person, just by his name and belongings. These days, people are usually judging others only by their appearance and stereotypes, and not by their personality. I believe, that the story is a good example of the saying "don't judge a book by its cover". At the end, it turned out Mr. Kelada was very kind and sensitive, which is the total opposite of what people thought he was. In my opinion, it is a great story with important morals  which is very enjoyable to read.

2) I found the fact that Mr. Kelada lied about Mrs. Ramsay's necklace very moving. Mr. Kelada is an argumentative person, who cares a lot about his pride and loves being right. When he had a bet with Mr. Ramsay,  whether Mrs. Ramsay's pearl necklace was real or not, he lied and said that it was made out of cultured pearls. Mr. Kelada took a step back, and showed a sensitive and a kind side of him, which was very moving. Eventough it was a very hard decision for Mr. Kelada, he was willing to do it in order to save Mr. and Mrs. Ramsay's relationship.

3)The thinking skills of Explaining Patterns and Uncovering Motives, influence my understanding of the story in some ways. In the story, the narrator repeats the saying "I dislike Mr. Kelada" many times.  As a result, it makes us wonder Why does he hate him so much? What are his motives? The skills of Explaining Patterns and Uncovering Motives, helped me understand that the narrator repeats it in order to show how different they are from each other. Mr. Kelada, came from a British colony and was viewed by the narrator who was British, as a second-class citizen. Therefore, the narrator despised him, and felt like they would never get along together.  

יום שבת, 8 בדצמבר 2012

Post-Reading-Mr. Know All

P.25- I chose option number 1.

Lately, I got to meet a man called Mr. Kelada. I was prepared to dislike Mr. Kelada before I knew him, since he was very different that me in some ways. However, at the end I saw a different side of him, and as a result, decided to not entirely hate him. After we got to know each other better, I changed my opinion about him.

 When we first met, I thought Mr. Kelada is person who doesn't take anything to heart too easily, as well as a person who thinks he knows everything better than everyone and shows off all the times. However, after I got to spend some time with him, I would describe him as the total opposite.  He is a sensitive, kind and brave gentleman who would always be there to help others. In addition, I believe that although Mr. Kelada cares a lot about being right, he cares more about the people he is surrounded by.

To conclude, I would say that Mr. Kelada is actually a better person than what I thought he was. After I got to know him better and understood his behavior, I realized that Mr. Kelada is very different than what I pictured him. Therefore, I learned that you don't need to judge people by their appearance and set your mine on them. You might like their personality, once you get to know them in person.